We are having a baby and the BM has been really nosy to the point where she found out the sex of our child. That was a private thing we only shared with a few people. I think as a rule, the BM should mind her own business as it causes confusion and arguments. Gossiping and being nosy is a good way to start a fight!

The baby mama is always having “emergencies” and keeps dropping off our child at my parent’s house unannounced. When my new woman and I make plans ahead of time, sometimes we have to cancel them. It’s not always a problem, but the baby mama does not give us any idea when she is coming back. BMD Book - Theme 1 - Page 10