Baby mamas can be needy sometimes and I understand that, but this baby mama puts the “need” in needy. She calls me for everything. She calls me at night telling me the kids can’t sleep or that they need this and that. I don’t really have a problem with that, but asking me to fix her car or her house is pushing it. Then she wants to drop the kids off at the house without any planning. This is causing problems with my woman and I. I want to be there for my kids but I have actually started pulling back these days. I’m so conflicted! Baby Mama Drama - It's Not Just About The Mama Theme 1 – Page 13

My man’s baby mama is beyond nosy. I love the kids, but I recently found out that she is grilling them for information every time they come over to the house. I wonder if they are taking pictures or recording my conversations also because I see them messing with their phones a lot. Am I that important? How could it be? Baby Mama Drama - It's Not Just About The Mama Theme 1 – Page 13

Sometimes it is not a good idea to get involved with somebody that already has BMD. My man had a child before we met, which is not a big deal, except that the baby mama he decided to have the kid with is crazy. The baby mama, her mother, and even her friends threaten me constantly. They post on social media weekly, sometimes daily. I wish she would just get a life.

We are having a baby and the BM has been really nosy to the point where she found out the sex of our child. That was a private thing we only shared with a few people. I think as a rule, the BM should mind her own business as it causes confusion and arguments. Gossiping and being nosy is a good way to start a fight!

The baby mama is always having “emergencies” and keeps dropping off our child at my parent’s house unannounced. When my new woman and I make plans ahead of time, sometimes we have to cancel them. It’s not always a problem, but the baby mama does not give us any idea when she is coming back. BMD Book - Theme 1 - Page 10